one of my suitemates told me that she just found out someone we both know had anal sex before she technically lost her virginity. let it be known that this girl doesn't even look like the type to do something like that. she's the sweet one! (hey, i may dress like a slut.. but once the lights go out, i don't really wanna do anything. shut up, i know you were thinking it!) anyway, for some reason, we were discussing this topic yesterday too.. + as a matter of fact, i did used to know a girl who claimed to be a virgin, but had engaged in anal sex. so what's the verdict? if you've never had vaginal sex, but have had anal sex.. are you still a virgin? i don't know about you guys, but in my opinion, anal sex is a whole lot worse than regular old fashioned sex. i'm not knocking those of you who enjoy it.. i'm just saying it's something i would probably break up with a guy over :/